Coping is complicated. Individuals are complicated. Hell, life is complicated. But if there is one singularity I've drawn from the aftermath of last night, it is that we are all processing the different stages of grief (in our own order, at our own pace). There has been denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance and hope displayed here over the day.
Denial:
This set in for me when Georgia regained possession to take a 38-7 halftime lead
Bargaining:
Remember the Alamo Bowl, why can't it happen again
Depression:
This is not the Alamo Bowl, but damn it, call me Cpt. Edward Smith because I'm going down with the ship
Acceptance:
Biggest one for me. I turned the game off last night and told myself, "I'm scheissing proud to be a mother scheissing TCU Horned Frog, and I will be god damned if any aggy or co-worker tries to take this season away from us." I laid out my favorite TCU Polo and Belt and knew that I was going to wear it with pride today. During the drive in, I turned on the sports talk radio and listened to local talking heads lambast the Frogs, listened to the haters hate at the office. Guess what, nothing has changed, they've been [ Finebaum ] talking us the whole time.
Anger:
It initially angered me to see some of the naysayers on here talking about how much this set us back yadadadadadada. Strong emphasis on the initially. I realize, while writing this, that maybe you were still dealing (and maybe still are) dealing with this loss in a different way.
Hope:
Look y'all, I get how embarrassing last night was, we all watched it. I hope that this was a wake up call to every one. The players, the coaches, the fans, the recruits and the nation. Maybe the bright lights were too much. I hope that this gave us a taste but didn't satisfy our appetite. For the people arguing that this is going to set us back from a recruiting standpoint, here is my retort: After a 5-7 season we were able to dominate the Transfer Portal and secure some key talent that brought us within 60 minutes of winning it all. If you don't want to come be a part of what is being built after last night, then frankly you don't have the heart/drive/determination that got us to where we were last night (as one of the ONLY two teams playing).
We started this season as the Hunters and despite last night (hell, even as of this morning) we will open next season as the Hunted. Let that sink in.Let this whole season sink in. All Glory to the Hypnotoad