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OT: Divorce Attorney
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<blockquote data-quote="Surfrog" data-source="post: 3127111" data-attributes="member: 73111"><p>Damn. Been through the process myself but didn't have a child involved. Might out myself with this one but oh well. After thousands spent on legal fees and six months later, we wound up exactly on the proposal I suggested before said legal fees and time happened with offers and counter offers instead of mediation and court. If she's being reasonable still, try and draft your own settlement agreements you can live with. Start prepping documents now - all credit card statements for the duration of the marriage, bank account statements, retirement statements. It's a pretty invasive process to have to go that route. I had a mantra - Money can always be made. I walked away from a decent amount but left with a clear conscious. (Re conscious, No one did anything wrong, immoral, or illegal. I just hate greedy people and didn't want to be greedy etc). </p><p></p><p>PS on one of her counters - she proposed 95% to her and 5% to me. While I had my mantra, I didn't accept that one. Wish I was making that up. </p><p></p><p>PSS - the time since the divorce has been some of the best time I've had in recent memory. Things probably absolutely suck and the world is upside down right now but it does get better, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Lean in on your friends, be open with them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Surfrog, post: 3127111, member: 73111"] Damn. Been through the process myself but didn't have a child involved. Might out myself with this one but oh well. After thousands spent on legal fees and six months later, we wound up exactly on the proposal I suggested before said legal fees and time happened with offers and counter offers instead of mediation and court. If she's being reasonable still, try and draft your own settlement agreements you can live with. Start prepping documents now - all credit card statements for the duration of the marriage, bank account statements, retirement statements. It's a pretty invasive process to have to go that route. I had a mantra - Money can always be made. I walked away from a decent amount but left with a clear conscious. (Re conscious, No one did anything wrong, immoral, or illegal. I just hate greedy people and didn't want to be greedy etc). PS on one of her counters - she proposed 95% to her and 5% to me. While I had my mantra, I didn't accept that one. Wish I was making that up. PSS - the time since the divorce has been some of the best time I've had in recent memory. Things probably absolutely suck and the world is upside down right now but it does get better, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Lean in on your friends, be open with them. [/QUOTE]
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