I mean, I think we have to factor in that Gary was out of town. I don’t pretend to know all the details, but it sounds like he wanted to tell Gary but Gary wasn’t there, so he told his position coach (and really, the HC of the offense).
I doubt this is the kind of thing you can just sit on for a couple days and then wait for Gary to get back in town.
I’m not going to assume the kid is a a POS and root against him because of this, because I don’t have the full story.
It does sound like the kid is dealing with a helicopter dad and that’s a huge part of the reason he’s no longer a Horned Frog, and it helps explain the “best for both parties” line we were fed by Jeremy Clark the day the news broke.