Winning cures most of this and a lack of winning caused the problem. The only game experience I care about is a W on the board. Then again I am a long time season ticket holder whose kids and friend came to all the games last year..
You and I are in the same boat. For the better part of two decades, I'm there no matter what.
Thing is, we're not the challenge. They don't have to market to us. They just have to open the gate and let us in. Unfortunately, there are not enough of us die hard fans in the stands. Not by a long shot.
And you're absolutely right, winning cures a lot of ills. But even when we used to win, we realized that the whole experience was extremely important.
We did do this:
https://www.tcu360.com/story/32509tcu-athletics-pairs-disney-improve-gameday-experience/
"With the 2014-15 football season on the horizon, TCU fans are not sure what to expect on the field. The gameday product, however, seems to be a lock for improvement."
The formative part of that statement has been true most years. I'd like for the later part to be true most every year, too.
The athletic department needs to get back to the entire gameday experience improvement mindset. It is their responsibility to do more than just dump it all on our coach winning or not.
(Yes - I realize they have elected to sell us beer, which has helped lessen some of the annoyance with the rest. ;-)